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Bidding goodbye to her dear ones, she rushes to the kitchen to start on the unwashed dishes heaped in the sink. As she nonchalantly goes about her seemingly endless chores, she wonders if this is all she was meant to do with her life.
Once she does away with her domestic work, she plonks in front of the TV, watching all the soaps, all the other nonsense they show on TV. Weeping with the sob stories, laughing her way with the so called comedies, she is unaware of the punishment her mind is being subjected to.
After a while, she goes to gossip with the neighbours about the working women in the building. Or she sleeps thorough the afternoon, until one day, she wakes up and realises she has turned into an obese woman, looking twice her age with diabetes and other ailments that plague her for the rest of her life. This is the plight of the average housewife in India. In her bid to add that much needed zing into her drab, joyless world which mainly revolves around mundane tasks of cooking, washing, cleaning, all of which we hate to think about she finds refuge in mindless chatter, gossip and TV programmes.
How does a housewife put up with her dreary existence. The unchanging monotony, the sameness of everyday life. The spontaneous smile that a housewife wears everyday as she welcomes her husband and children home has to be given credit.
Perhaps it is not really spontaneous though, and has become perfect after years of practice. Housewives fall into two. This woman finds contentment by being a dutiful daughter-in-law, loyal wife and caring mother. She is blissfully unaware of her identity, individuality and a mind that is truly her own.
In the other category are the degree holders who become housewives out of compulsion or ignorance. Compulsion and objection in the form of in-laws and husbands who choose to be archaic in their thoughts and outlook, yet want to live in a modern world with all its comforts and luxuries. For them, a married woman earning and supporting the family is unthinkable.
Why should she, when the man gets a fat pay cheque? What they fail to understand is that a woman goes out to work not for the money but for the satisfaction she gets when her work is recognised. Both of woman surrender to their fate, suffering in silent isolation.
An unemployed mother expects her children to lend an ear, so she can confide in them and share the joys in her life. They have to understand their mother is a person like them, who probably has the same problems and takes joy in the same things as them.
Children can be cruelly insensitive. Grappling with adolescent and teenage problems, trying to come to terms with their sexuality and busy as they are with their parties, dates and pubbing, they do not have time for their mothers. As for the husband, the less said the better. His paunch is rapidly growing, and the frown has become a permanent fixture on his once lovable face as he is busy worrying over his promotion, bonus, arrears that are long overdue, and the care loan that has not yet been sanctioned. He pays no attention to her greying hair, the unpleasant dark circles, the extra pounds let alone the menopausal blues she is experiencing.
Left in the cold, a housewife becomes a non-entity for her children and husband. She slinks away, knowing her views and thoughts do not matter to them. But they do exist.
And she is waiting to be heard. So the next time you find your mother lounging in a chair, staring into nothingness, just put an arm around her and let her spill her thoughts to you.
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